conscious uncoupling ceremonies

Once the decision has been made to part ways, it can bring great relief to a weary couple, but all too often, we make this natural occurrence something to be angry about.   If a couple loved each other enough to build a life together, then is it possible they can respect each other enough to part ways with reverence and gratitude for the time they shared?   I can assist you to extinguish the fire of anger and move forward with dignity.

Conscious Uncoupling Ceremonies help all members of the relationship, including In-Laws to have closure and give their blessing for the couple to move forward without bitterness or resentment.  Having this kind of ceremony also helps in future relationships as new partners are less likely to feel jealousy or resentment for their lover's ex partner if they know that the previous relationship was concluded with deliberate, respectful finality.

Young family members are the most often overlooked in these situations.  However hard it is for the adults, it must be ten times harder for the little people whose whole world is cast asunder.  They are faced with the prospect of losing everything, or at least it seems that way to them.  They are forced to make sacrifices materially, geographically and emotionally as their routine is disrupted and their time with one or both of their heroes is drastically slashed.  They have no escape from the turmoil.  They can't storm out and drive off in their car.  They are stuck in the collapsing nest to fully experience the blow-ups and the silence at full velocity.

Youngsters somehow find a way to blame themselves and no matter how many times you tell them it's not their fault, they will often be torn apart emotionally, going over and over situations in their head, thinking about how none of this would've happened if only they did this or didn't do that.  Along with a Conscious Uncoupling Ceremony, youngsters can really benefit from some Homeopathic support remedies to ensure that they are not vibrationally affected by this tumultuous transition, but at the very least, let's give them closure and a feeling of safety engendered by the fact that there is an official process that leads them to their new life, rather than just a lonely endurance of the seeming apocalypse. 

A Conscious Uncoupling Ceremony allows all involved (especially little ones) to feel an element of control and preparedness as we work together to design the ceremony.  Youngsters can participate in the planning and in the ritual of the day, inspired by the knowledge that their adult guardians are working towards a new future, not merely dismantling the only world they know. 

You can think of this ceremony as a kind-of reverse wedding (only not as expensive). 

Tokens can be exchanged between the uncoupling adults and from the adults to the sons and daughters.  Speeches, friends, family, music, laughter, food, photographs and celebration all help to bring joy and reverent intention to a day which can be exciting, and full of blessings. Most importantly, the couple will have an opportunity for closure and a friendly farewell that brings deep spiritual healing.  

After all you've been through together, and in anticipation of your new life, why shouldn't this be a happy, memorable day?